Becoming Toxic Person Proof by Unknown

Author:Unknown
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 0000000000000
Published: 2021-10-22T16:42:17+00:00

Summary

If you want to become Toxic Person Proof™, you have to start solving the right problems. If you are codependent, you should work with a codependency expert, read up on codependency, and develop a life outside of others. However, if you have smart-girl/guy syndrome, that is a completely different problem to solve.

To become Toxic Person Proof™, it’s important to be aware that toxic people can (and will) use your strengths against you. Strengths such as your grit, your sheer desire to make things work, your belief that if something isn’t working it means you need to work harder, your ability to hope, your belief in others, your loyalty, and your love.

Becoming clear about the true problem not only helps people move past the problem in a more significant way, it also prevents them from blaming others for the wrong problem. There is a difference between someone staying too long because they are a little too loyal and staying too long because they are a little too needy. There is a difference between someone giving a few too many chances and being a doormat. There is a difference between someone who believes in their ability to change (and therefore becomes willing to work harder to make something work) and someone who is just afraid of letting go. This approach is not only more honest in most circumstances, it is also more kind. People are more willing to get help when their intelligence, kindness, and loyalty have been used against them rather than trying to fix a codependency issue when they aren’t codependent.

We learned from Cinderella’s evil stepsisters that we shouldn’t force on shoes that don’t fit. We shouldn’t force healing strategies that don’t fit either. Give yourself the gift of 10 minutes and reflect on your experience with smart girl/guy syndrome so you can find the right healing strategy on your journey to become Toxic Person Proof™.

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